Archive for July, 2008

28
Jul

Fives Pieces of a Church

You really don’t understand a church until you know what it’s made of.  Summer and I have visited a lot churches over the last year looking for what works and what doesn’t.  What makes a church successful is sometimes murky at best.  What churches do are so numerous, expensive and sometimes emotional that we easily focus on the urgent instead of the important.  Perhapes we could try a different approach.

Here are fives pieces of a church that we must pay attention and connect the dots:

NUMBERS are observational.  Normally churches scrutinize numbers for worship attendance or financial giving while valuable it’s the wrong focus.  We should ask why. Why did “x” amount of people worship?  What do people actually do? How many people participate? Who gave to what? Numbers are compelling to some churches, and ignored by others. Numbers are powerful, overlooked and sometimes mistaken for boring.  You don’t have to understand the what, you merely need to know the why. Numbers are the data that calculates if what you’re doing is compelling enough to count.

STORIES define everything you say and do. Stories are why people come and why they stay.  Every person, every volunteer, every ministry and every area in your church has and provides stories.  That’s because all we can work with as humans is stories. I want to reason that numbers and stories are the two building blocks of a successful church – the other three are built on these two.

EXPERIENCE is the physical manifestations of the story.  If your story is that you are cutting edge/missional/relational/vibrant, then your ministries better be. Average churches for apathetic people are a common story, but not one that spreads.  When in doubt, re-imagine the church.  Push it to be the story, to live the story, to create a celebrated experience.

INTERACTIONS are all the strategies the church uses to actually touch the seeker or attendee.  Interactions range from mail market pieces to billboards, from the way you answer the inquisitive parent to the approach you take to a rude comment card.  Interactions are the hero of being the church, because there are so many and most of them are so cheap.  Unfortunately, all lazy churches do is disapprove and disappear from culture.  Which creates an interaction that contradict your story, right?

CONNECTION is the highest level of enlightenment, the end goal.  Connection between you and the seeker, definitely; but hopefully a connection between seeker and God.  Great churches create community, groups of people who focus on a level of spiritual formation and meaningful personal interaction. Get the first four steps right and you may get a shot at this one.

Some questions churches must ask: Does this interaction lead to connections? Do our minitries support our story? Is the story pulling in numbers that demonstrate that it’s working?

In that light, what are you working on? If it’s not one of these five, not going to seriously change the dynamic of your church, why exactly are you bothering?  My guess is that your church spends almost all of its time on the interactions.

Then again, I’m just a church planter.

23
Jul

Right Direction, Wrong Street

Recently, I’ve been engrossed in Job (maybe God is preparing me for something).  I’ve read the account of his lose, pain, and reconciliation with God over and over.  I can relate.  Today when I read Job 8 where his friend Bildad speaks, I thought in his first few words “his guy will have it right,” then I thought “no, his missing the point.” 

As you read chapter 7 you find Job is disappointed to say the least about his life.  Actually, he believes God is disappointed with him too.  You feel his pain and agony in his words.  Like his friends, you agree that Job is speaking nonsense because God doesn’t mess up.  Does God ever get things backward? At this point Bildad took a wrong turn, his going the right direction but down the wrong street.  His theory is:

God + Pain = You sinned so His punishing you

 Bildad says its plain to him Job’s children sinned against God – otherwise, why would God have punished them? He truly believes Job messed up and if he gets down on his knees before God, He’ll set everything right again, reestablishing Job’s fortunes.

 Here are the problems I see:

  • Suffering doesn’t equal punishment. We can’t assume that if we hurt then we sinned. That is not God’s nature in scripture or in life. Sometimes pain is due to sin, but sin doesn’t always equal pain.
  • Bildad believes the answer to pain is to be restored to one’s previous condition. He says “ask for forgiveness so you can re reestablished” as before. Suffering, pain what say you should make you better, stronger, healthier – not restore you to some previous state.

However, Bildad arrives at the answer. He says “Even though you’re not much right now, you’ll end up better than ever.” Our Life Group (small group) is discussing suffering this coming Friday and I’m excited to hear the discussion.  I’m more excited to see how God relieves Himself.  Please be praying for us.

21
Jul

WE’RE OFFICIAL

Okay, maybe we just feel legitimate but we officially have a website for Graceland

 www.GracelandPeople.com

The purpose of this website is for three types of people and a sub-group. Here the people this site is created for:

Prayer Partners //
Friends who believe in Graceland and know the power of prayer.  People who sign-up to be Partners will receive prayer needs and prayers answered by weekly emails and viewed on our website.

Mission Support //
Obviously one of the greatest needs of any new church is raising finances.  Much like a missionary we need to raise the funds needed to launch Graceland.  We welcome any and all amounts.  We need your support.  Please read about Graceland, and then, search your heart as to how you and/or your church might be involved.

Seeker //
The Seeker is the person who lives in Austin, exploring Christianity, and desires to know more about who Graceland People are.  Currently Graceland is hosting Seeker Life Groups that are geared toward people with questions and doubts about Christianity.   If you’re a seeker or a believer interested in Graceland and live in South Austin check out our website.

Serve with Action //
Solomon writes in Ecclesiastes 4.9, “Two people can accomplish more than twice as one…” (NLT).  It takes the village to raise a child and it takes a community to start a church.  Not everyone is called to move or change where they worship.  But we know God has gifted and called some to do more then be a spectator, they feel called to serve. 

Speaking of someone who serves, I want to endorse a friend who designed Graceland’s website.  James Hafner has been a friend of the McCool’s for years now.  He is more then a friend because he has been apart of many important moments our life.  He photographed our first Christmas card in our home, Summer’s pregnancy pictures, and Tatum’s first professional shot - plus he has great taste in music.

 

If you’re looking for someone with a great eye for design, art, and color look to James and his new bride Elizabeth Hafner with Vignette.

16
Jul

Fear, My Own

When I graduated from collage I knew I was called to plant churches.  After eight years I’ve learned a lot about myself and my call.  I recognize I don’t have the same skills as others, nor do I want them, and I understand the deep esteem one must have for the art of planting a church.  With that said I realize my biggest fear – missing the point.

I grew up in the mid-south.  Many of the sermons preached with charisma were about Heaven and how I will answer for myself.  So I naturally didn’t want to fail God.  In many ways I still carry that attitude.  I fear as a massager of Christ that I will stand before Him and hear Him say, ‘You missed the point. All you did was use me to make yourself important. You don’t impress me one bit.’ (Matt 7.21-23, Message) 

Starting a place for people to connect with God and others is a huge responsibility, not one to take lightly. Lastly, I’ve read a lot of books about church, theology, mission, and hope – each author with a different posture. Something I read a lot, and I don’t believe they mean harm, but it scares me is reducing “church” to business.  Jesus said, “Don’t reduce holy mysteries to slogans.  In trying to be relevant, you’re only being cute and inviting sacrilege.” (Matt 7.6, Message)

 Side note about me, something my wife and closest friends know – I rethink myself often.  I think that is why I work best in team, I have the freedom to throw out great ideas and people to help build upon or dismantle ideas.  Every time I finish a book I find myself rethinking our church structure, mottos, systems, etc again and again. I think this will always be an advantage to keep authentic and moving forward as a people of God.  To grow is to evolve and to evolve is to advance.  I hope Graceland is a community that is always growing, evolving with our world, and advancing the gospel. 

08
Jul

Austin City Limits

 

Last night I went online and bought tickets to ACL.  It’s perhapes the biggest music festival I’ll ever attend.  I love music and all the burnt albums in youth group are a testament to my passion for tunes.

Well, I will be going with a friend from college and meeting up with friends from Austin.  I would enjoy seeing some other people who are joining thousands for the festivities in Zilker Park, Austin TX on September 26-28, 2008.  You don’t want to miss 3 days, 8 stages, and 130 bands.  I think it’s less about the music and more about the people.  You meet the most random people and relate on so many levels. 

I know Summer will kill me, but you can sleep at my house.

08
Jul

Emerging People

Recently I started asking friends to pray for Graceland and this community in Austin.  For the most part we’ve had amazing support and encouraging words from people.  On the other hand, I’ve had a few that turned me down politely.  They don’t loathe me or reject what we are doing.  They turned down praying for us “if” we are Emergent.  I won’t spend our time defining what Emergent is because there are plenty of books and people dealing with that issue.  But none agree to what it really means.  Either you have joined the group who defines themselves as Emergent or you are a church emerging.  Graceland is not apart of the Emergent movement (theological ideas willing to be entertained), but we will be emerging, because I’m emerging (moving up and forward).  I look over my life and I’m not the same person at any level I was ten years ago.  I love that about me, I love that about God. 

I clarify the above because we have decided not to use “Church” in our name.  We actually decided to refer to our community as Graceland People.  I have many reason why, one being people are the church and another being culture thinks of church as being a building and we are family, community, people, inhabitants of Austin – were more than a building.  We clutch the truth we are people of the Kingdom of God and this kingdom is among us.  Jesus was approached in Luke 17 by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God would come, Jesus replied, “The kingdom of God does not come with your careful observation, nor will people say, ‘Here it is,’ or ‘There it is,’ because the kingdom of God is within you (or among you).  

The people of Jesus day had preconceived ideas of what the Kingdom of God would look like and act.  They were wrong.  Today many believers, churches, organizations have predetermined ideas of what church should look like and how the Kingdom of God rules.  They too are wrong.  I can’t say what Graceland People will look like in ten years, we are still emerging, but I can tell you it will look more like hands raised high then steeples with icons.

08
Jul

“Disciples, making disciples to change our world.” pt 3

Our Fouth of July weekend was wonderful but it caused me to forget to post our third installment of our mission statement (why we exist).  After being disciples who have taught others to be disciples we are responsible to change our world.

Graceland is committed to being disciples and making disciples who change their world.  That means a church for change in society. Jesus calls his church to be a compelling force for good in the world, and we believe that the church is at its best when it serves, sacrifices, and loves – caring about the things God cares about.  So we choose not to disappear from culture but to shape it.

Mother Theresa said “we view poverty as being hungry, naked and homeless.  But feeling unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty.”  We agree and determine to show the world how radically different a Christian society is with regard to poverty, friendship, purpose, sacrifice, and love.  We will be more involved in actions of mercy and social justice than traditional liberal churches and at the same time more involved in evangelism and church planting than traditional conservative churches.

I would love your thoughts.

02
Jul

What a day!

How would you respond if everything you possess was taken away at once?  Use your imagination on how this happens.  People steal your belongs, flood takes your home, your friends are killed by Mother Nature, your cars are stolen and your insurance canceled your policy, and your children are killed by the structural collapse of your home.  Moreover, your no payments, no interest loan comes due and your identity has been stolen, your bank accounts bleed and your credit is shot. Oh, and your phone’s battery last long enough for you to get the message from your boss that your fired.

What a day!  

Until today you have shared a wonderful life with your wife and children.  You ruled the world and now you swipe the streets you once owned.  How do you respond?  If you’re devoted to God, how would you respond? The question, “WHY” comes naturally?  Do you accept you came into the world without and will return the same? God gives, God takes – bless His name!

Everything you hold dear, valuable, and sacred has been taken and all you have left is your loving wife and health – until the first sore. Your whole body covered with terrible ulcers and scabs that itch and oozed.  Self mutilation is the only escape from the agony and burning. And your wives not so loving anymore, nor as spiritually devout – she demands you curse God.

Your response to everything, “We take the good days from God – why not also the bad days?”  Every act of man, nature, and science has cheated you of life and not once do you sin. Not once do you say a word negative against God.  Not once!

What a day!

Personally, it’s hard to think of loosing my daughter, home, possessions, and source of income.  Scares me to think my wife could deny me and God when our pain is peaked.  I don’t know if I could react as Job (Job 1-2).  I hope my life has shown truth and hope in God in times of abandonment – I hope I can do it again.

Take a moment and think about everything you “have” and think about it all being taken away – stop and just think about it for 3 minutes.  How did you respond? How will you respond? Now ask yourself why?

01
Jul

“Disciples, making disciples to change our world.” pt 2

Yesterday I posted the first of three blogs about our mission at Graceland.  Just so I’m clear Graceland exist to be disciples, making disciples to change our world.  After being disciples we feel it’s our responsiblity to make disciples. 

As disciples of Christ we are called to make disciples.  At the end of his life, Jesus instructed his followers as they go, make disciples of all nations (Matt 28.18-20).  Discipleship as a journey means bringing people closer and closer to Christ.   It begins with a person accepting Christ, then loving Him, then loving His family, then to grow in Christ, then to serve Christ, and then to share Christ.  We don’t believe spiritual maturity is arrived through sermons but through practice.  Jesus had a process by which He took people from no faith to deep disciples.  The very first words of Jesus to His disciples are “Come and See.”  That is the entry point for faith.  There is no commitment level, simply be near and watch.  But Jesus never left them there.  Jesus took His disciples from the “Come and See” to “Come and Die.”  Discipleship is sequential, systematic, and processed.  Graceland is a church committed to seeing that people go from “Come and See” to “Come and Die.” We also recognize the need for combination.  People learn in different ways, so learning spaces need to be built and freedom given for natural discipleship.

These learning spaces are referred to as Spiritual Growth Environments. It’s widely debated the extent to which we are shaped by our gene pool (G) and/or our environment (E).  In light of the gospel and the process Graceland adopts for discipleship we suggest we are a mix of both our uniqueness and our surroundings.  So we will apply this theory to the spiritual growth at Graceland.

G x E = Spiritual Growth

G = (a mix of our “made in His image” + “being transformed into the image of Christ through the power of the Spirit”)

E = (our communities; disciplines; growth coaching; practices; spaces)

We understand we can not do much about “G” but we can do a lot about “E“.  So we will create spaces for spiritual growth, promote community within and outside church, practice and illuminate spiritual disciplines, and value growth coaching through Life Group Leaders.

I would love to read some feedback on discipleship.  What ideas do you have?  How are people discipled in your church? What others spaces would you include?  What experience could be considered?

01
Jul

Starting Over

So when I turned thrity I made a commitment to read through the Bible once a year.  Got a really great 52-week reading schedule that works for me perfectly and dived in last year.  It was a great experience but sometimes hard to stick with.  I often found myself catching up or making up entire weeks of reading.  I chose the English Standard Verison the first time around.  Good read.

Anyhow, this morning I was excited to start again.  I’m using The Message this time and can’t wait to feel the difference.