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18
Feb

What is Love?

Okay, so I’m on some love kick!  But since I’m leading a missional community and many of the people involved are returning to Jesus or investigating faith the subject of love and relationships are all around us.  I find myself thinking about the difference between love, lust, infatuation, passion, desire, even obsession.

Here are some thoughts.  I’ll keep with Infatuation and Love to avoid confusion.  But I believe Love is clearly different once looked at from a distance (which is the hard part). So you could replace any word (lust, passion, desire, obsession) for Infatuation.

Infatuation is the instant desire that is in fact a primitive, biologically based drive, like hunger or sex. My wives favorite quote is “Love is friendship on fire.”  I like that.  Love is friendship that has caught fire.  It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation presents feelings of insecurity.  You are excited and eager to see them, but not genuinely happy.  There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, parts of your beloved you would rather not examine too closely for fear of spoiling the dream.

Love is at home with imperfection with quiet understanding and mature acceptance.  Love is genuine and rejoices with the truth.  It is real.  Love grows and nurtures the object of that love.  You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.  Love always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres even when miles separate you.  Near or far, you know they are yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says, “We must get married right away. I can’t risk losing you.”

Love says, “Be patient.  They are yours.  Plan your future with confidence.”

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are in one another’s company you are hoping it will end in intimacy.  It has a sense of self-seeking and you become easily angered when it doesn’t turn out as expected.  It can be rude.

Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.  You find kindness and selfless rewarding in love.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When he’s away, you wonder if he’s cheating.
Sometimes you check.  Infatuation records unprovoked wrongs.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened. She feels your trust and it makes her even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you’ll regret later, but love never will.

Love lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. Love never fails.

 Reference cited: 1 Corinthians 13
11
Feb

Stories

I’ve been thinking about “story” a lot recently; specifically our nation’s story.  We have a first African-American president in Obama and his been compared to Abraham Lincoln, which is electrifying as we celebrate 100 years of the NAACP (Feb. 12. 1909). Of course, tomorrow is Lincoln’s birthday (2/12/1809) and I’m reminded of the Gettysburg Address where Lincoln quoted Thomas Jefferson’s words found in the 1776 Declaration of Independence that read, “all men are created equal.”  These are the same words Elizabeth Cady Stanton, the women’s movement leader, affirmed in the 1848 Declaration of Sentiments and that Martin Luther King Jr. cited in the 1963 “I Have A Dream” speech.  These words have long been apart of our nation’s story

 As a church, Graceland People, believes everyone who calls themselves followers of Christ are called to minister, so we avoid titles and systems that elevate one person over another spiritually.  In the Kingdom of God and Graceland People we are all equals. 

 God has long used story to communicate his redeeming purpose.  Perhaps, the greatest gift of story in the Bible is of Christ but also the linear theory of history with its implication that life can get better and avoid decline and the idea of the equality and dignity of each individual that culminated in the statement that “all men are created equal.”  

 As a community we value everyone’s story.  We encourage everyone, anyone, who has a story to share it with others.  In the future we will posted such stories on our church network website at www.GracelandPeople.com

 If you have a story of life, redemption, or what God can do and is doing please share it with others – share it with me.  I would love to hear your story, become apart of your story so we can share a story together.

I look forward to reading your story.

14
Jan

Thoughts on Church

For months now I have been asking myself what it means to be the Church.  For some reason the idea of a scheduled meeting time and structure recognition does not resonate.  I recognize it is dangerous and unconventional to think otherwise in some circles. 

Apostle Paul penned in 1 Corinthians 10.31 that “whether you eat or drank or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”  To give glory is to worship.  He tells us to live holistically as believers.  Everything we do is meant to bring Jesus glory, praise and adoration.  Worship draws people toward Christ.  God invites everyone everywhere into this way of life, and I believe it is the best possible way to live.

Sometimes I forget to worship.  I’m still learning. Often my failure occurs outside the “church building” and fostered by a false premise that church is something I can go to as in a specific event, location or organized group.  Jesus looked at church quite differently.  He didn’t talk about it as a place to go, but as a way of living in relationship to Him and to others in His family.

Asking me where I go to church is like asking me where I go to McCool. How do I answer that? I am a McCool, and where I go a McCool is. ‘Church’ is that kind of word. It doesn’t identify a location or an institution. It describes a people and how they relate to each other. If we lose sight of that, our understanding of the church will be distorted, and we’ll miss out on much of its joy.

Maybe the Church is too big and powerful for a building?  Maybe meeting in a building is comparable to a movie, on-stage show, or concert that you feel alive in and leave only to look forward to the next big thing (I just lost some readers). The real problem is when people find it is far easier to sit through a finely-tuned (or not so finely-tuned) service and go home without ever having to open up their life or care about another person’s journey.  What is much harder to practice is sharing the journey of knowing Jesus with others that consists of open, honest sharing, genuine concern about each other’s spiritual well being and encouragement for people to follow Jesus however he leads them.  This can happen among established congregations, as it can also happen beyond them.

What I find myself asking is the need for fancy buildings? We have found ourselves meeting as a house church and we make no apologies for the way we meet.  Each faith community most discover for themselves the way of Christ for their culture. We believe we are the Body of Christ when we come together in homes, sing a song, share a lesson, find revelation, and experience gifts of the Holy Spirit.  All done for the strengthening of the church (1 Corinthians 14.26).

Does this mean I despise established churches with buildings? NO, I value these places of worship.  Let me make clear that a house church (network) works together with the more traditional community churches and mega-churches to show the transforming power of Christ to our neighborhoods.  But keep in mind, however, that your gathering is not the church. It is just one of the many expressions of it in the place where you live.

It’s no secret that the term “house church” frequently conjures up negative images for many. However, the history of Christianity has never been limited to tall buildings with steeples.  The New Testament believers understand the church as something you are, not where you go. The house church is neither new nor heretical. I hope that we simplify church and programs so that we are freed to actually live the kind of 24/7 everyday-missional life we are meant to live. It permits us to think of church as more than Sunday morning and move us away from being consumers.

Here is our hope. Picture a group of people who simply live out the gospel in their marketplace community and began to draw a group of people from their local coffee shop, music venues, and markets to discuss what Jesus meant by the kingdom of God. As time passes this group would begin to grow and become much more. It won’t be where they go to church. It will be their life, their friends, and the people they’re on mission with.

That would be some kind of church!

Much of the thoughts above come from Wayne Jacobsen’s article “Why I Don’t Go To Church.”  I would encourage anyone and everyone to read his thoughts.  Also, Organic Church by Neil Cole.

06
Dec

New Evangelism, part two

Last, week Graceland People sent out a prayer request about Thanksgiving and our upcoming weekend Life Group.  The Life Group discussion will be about evangelism.  One line has caused some to question my meaning.  I want to develop that thought further. For you who don’t follow the church, but read this blog here is the line – “We want to discover how we “listen and learn” without claiming that all beliefs and practices are of equal value and without claiming what we believe is absolutely true.”

To begin you can read my blog about a new type of evangelism.  Here I explain that the gospel at least in America has been made into a message that would only win Christians to Christ.  Nevertheless, how does one share the message of Jesus with someone who rejects the need for Jesus or accepts another god?  How does one offer Jesus without claiming absolute certainty? Is it possible we can count conversations rather than conversions?

When confronted with arrogance and superiority in the Kingdom of God among his disciples Jesus turned to the attitude of children.  He said accept this child you receive him, accept him and you receive the One who sent him.  “You become great by accepting, not asserting (Luke 9.48, MSG)”

John followed by asserting how they stopped a man not in the “group” from expelling demons in the name of Jesus.  Jesus responded by saying, “Don’t stop him.  If he’s not an enemy, he’s an ally (9.49-50). 

Too often we declare someone as “enemy” without ever listening and learning who they are and what they believe, if anything, about Jesus.  Perhaps, we fear by listening and learning we are conveying that any beliefs or practices are equal?  Maybe we fear more that our beliefs and practices are weak if we don’t claim they are absolute and without question?  Maybe we deem it sin? Jesus said in Mark 10:15 and Luke 18:17 that “whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it (NKJV).”

Interesting when you read Jesus’ view of elementary people approaching God, he said in Matthew 18:4-7, 10, “Whoever becomes simple and elemental again, like this child, will rank high in God’s kingdom. What’s more, when you receive the childlike on my account, it’s the same as receiving me. But if you give them a hard time, bullying or taking advantage of their simple trust, you’ll soon wish you hadn’t. You’d be better off dropped in the middle of the lake with a millstone around your neck. Doom to the world for giving these God-believing children a hard time! Hard times are inevitable, but you don’t have to make it worse-and it’s doomsday to you if you do.” “(verse 10) Watch that you don’t treat a single one of these childlike believers arrogantly.”

Christianity is built on faith, hope, and love- not absolution? If it was it wouldn’t require faith because it would be without question. Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see (Heb 11.1).  And one can not please God without faith (Heb 11.6). 

When pressed to identify the greatest commandment (Mark 12:28-31), Jesus listed two: love the Lord your God, and love your neighbor as yourself.  We tend to pull these commandments apart; we make them distinct and often even sequential.  Work out your relationship with God, and then your relationships with people will fall into place.  But Jesus held these commandments together and said they were alike.  He understood something our churches have often forgotten: we grow in our relationship to God and to each other simultaneously.  And it is often through learning to love each other that we find ourselves opening to God in new and deeper ways.

We need to be motivated by a desire to be in relationship with people who are in many ways different from you and me.  We need relationships because they help us to understand better what Jesus is doing in the world and how we might follow him, even as he leads us out of the church and into the bar.

What if our churches not only cultivated Christian fellowship through worship and small groups but also held as a high priority the building of relationships with people who are not a part of our church, even people who are very different from us? How do we create this type of church? We become a place where people learn about what a truly soul-nourishing relationship looks like.  With teaching and practice we build equality and mutual respect, where people are willing to listen as well as speak, receive as well as give.  When we become such a place where respectful relationships are in place, the church becomes a place where people learn to share their faith with honesty and integrity in a way that does not manipulate the relationship into a recruitment possibility.

If we practice building relationships in the church and can share our faith respectfully and without embarrassment, chances are we’ll be able to share our faith outside the church as well.  But we will not share only what others tell us we should believe.  We will share our own commitments, even when they don’t fit the “party line.” We will share our doubts as well and the things we find funny or peculiar.  And we will share our curiosity about the beliefs and commitments, practices and experiences of others, even those who are very different from us.  As we do, not only will we bring Jesus to the world, it’s likely we’ll meet him coming to us from the edges, from the wilderness, where we should never be surprised to find him.

11
Nov

New Evangelism

Maybe I’m not clear, “I’m a pastor, I lead churches, people worship and I help!” This is the thought that feels my mind as kind, thoughtful people hand me their church invitation.  I don’t understand why but I routinely get invited to visit people’s churches.  These same people often talk with me about God and church.  They are curious how I start a church, where do the people come from, and why do I work bi-vocationally if I’m a pastor.  But they still feel the need to invite me to come attend their church.  I find this very strange because they feel they are evangelist.  

They either consider my faith unequal, alluring, or it’s easier to invite me to their church – I’m a believer. I think this type of evangelism is easier.  Evangelism for much of the church has not been among unbelievers but focused on receivers – people who already accepted our worldview (~ Erwin McManus).

Honestly, the gospel at least in America has been made into a message that would only win Christians to Christ.   Our religious diversity has tended to exist within the confines of a Christian worldview.  People who respond to our mail market piece, visit our churches on Sunday, and so often heed our preaching are convert sinners who already believe in the God of the Bible.  Perhaps our most extreme opposition comes from “Christian” atheists who reject the existence of God.

Our most basic presentations of the good news of Jesus have been built and filled on the assumed authority of the Scriptures. We know that when we tell the unchurched that God loves them and has a wonderful plan for their life, the word “God” evokes the same image that we have. When asking an unbeliever about the destination of their soul after death, we know it is unnecessary to build an argument for the existence of heaven. 

But we have been wrong.

It’s easier to convince someone that already agrees with you.  It’s daunting to convert a stranger.  There are two dangerous temptations each of us face when confronted by a stranger (someone who thinks and acts in a way that is foreign to our religious practices). The first is a desire to transform that stranger into our own image, trying to obscure and replace their cultural and religious practices with our own. The second is to exclude and reject the stranger entirely, viewing them as a threat which must be guarded against. In one the stranger is rendered into a clone while in the other they are made into an enemy.

Jesus instructions were to go and as you go tell others, train everyone you meet in this Jesus way of living (Matt 28.19). So how do you “evangelize” unbelievers – make disciples? I believe we endeavor to demonstrate how one can faithfully ask, seek, and knock (Matt 7.6-9; Luke 11.8-11) by making this a necessary part of our lives.  Augustine once wrote, ‘God is He who gives God’, so we must realize that we cannot give God but rather, by demonstrating openness and humility, creating a space where God can give God.  In this way an evangelist can be understood as one who is open to God at all times and encourages others in this way of being – helping to produce a clearing where God is free to give God.

30
Oct

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04
Oct

Habitat for Humanity

One of the core values of Graceland People is Compassionate Living. Jesus radically taught that our neighbor is anyone in need.  Jesus calls his church to be a compelling force for good in the world, and we believe that the church is at its best when it serves, sacrifices, and loves, caring about the things God cares about.

In an effort to be agents for change our group had the opportunity to serve people in need this weekend.  We spent our Saturday building a home with Habitat for Humanity.  If you’re not familiar with Habitat for Humanity it is a nonprofit, ecumenical Christian housing ministry. It seeks to eliminate poverty housing and homelessness from the world, and to make decent shelter a matter of conscience and action.

We can’t agree more with the purpose and we had a great time serving.  Here is the group together.

29
Sep

Church Planting – ACL Model

I spent the weekend in the sun at the Austin City Limits Festival.  It’s become an annual event for me, this year being the fourth.  I was happy to rock with my suite mate from college, Matt Boudreaux, he now lives in Waco, Texas and is apart of our church planting journey.  We spent some time with friends of his from Waco and had some conversation about Christian bands.  The conversation started concerning Flyleaf who played earlier in the day and is from Temple, Texas (between Waco and Austin).  Flyleaf is hardcore alternative rock and began their set with “I Love You, Lord”. Not my tastes in music but I appreciate their faith.

I found it interesting that a bands faith or spiritual influence had no effect on my new ACL friends.  Really, they viewed it as only a new subgenres or fusion genres. It didn’t make a difference in their life or anyone they knew.  They respected the message of Christ, but they are indifferent to the message or their personal faith.  I’m not naïve to think people don’t hear Flyleaf (or any other band) and make a decision to follow Christ.  I’m sure they have stories and evidence.  I found their show inspiring and I value people who live out their faith in mainstream music. However, I find people are apathetic toward Christianity, not so much Jesus; it’s a trend I see too often around me.

Summer and I both have multiple friends who have no public (or private) confession of faith in Jesus and they listen to Christian Radio (The River) daily.  Ask them their favor music style (group) and they confess its Christian music, but ask them are they Christian and they answer “no”.  They simply like the positive message of hope and upbeat music more than other styles. 

Maybe this issue is about music and the industry.  But many of these people say it’s the Christianity, the church, not the music.  Well, not the Church or church Jesus spoke so confident about.  The church they find so uninteresting, unresponsive, is the institution or establishment.   This is heartbreaking to me because I’m a church planter, thus the maker of institution and entrepreneur of establishment.  Scary! 

So where have I been for over a month – I’ve been wrestling with what I’m starting here.  I’ve been apart of starting three churches – people have accepted Christ, families are being reached, God is honored – but the people we are reaching now, the relationships forged here need a different type of experience.  They want to be the church, not attend a church.  They don’t want to be told, they want to dialog.  Inspiration can be bought at Barnes & Noble; they want to learn to inspire others.  Being Holy is strange and questionable to them, but being holistic is attractive.

Every church planter must decide who they are because that is the type of church they will start and pastor.  In the past I went into the launch with a preconceived idea of what this church will do, who it will reach, how it will make a difference, when we will launch and how, and where people will come from who attend.  I have no idea anymore and I like it.  I’m not starting a business, institution, or association of believers.  I’m not starting a church – I’m guiding the people God is forming into the church.

27
Aug

Can you picture me without reducing me?

We are more than our parts.  I’m more than a husband, I’m a father; more a lover of people; I’m a lover of God.  As much as you can describe me as spiritual, I’m a follower of the way of Jesus.  It’s hard to squarely fit anyone into a box.

I remember when I got engaged.  I called close friends and family and told them I had met the woman of my dreams.  Among the nice exchanges they would often ask me to tell them about Summer.  It was easy to list off the endless attributes that made her so desirable, but I often felt the picture conveyed somehow reduced her, because she was so much more then her features, qualities, and reputation.

We have a close friend who introduced a Mexican holiday to us a few years ago called, “The Day of The Dead.” Yeah, I was a little apprehensive about the holiday too, until we attended. It was a night more about life then death.  It was about remembering those who made tremendous influence on our life.  Often you find pictures, clothing, art that reminded people of their loved one.  Even then the pictures couldn’t communicate the depth of these people.  The framed pictures were icons for more.  Ask anyone about their item (picture, art, etc) and you see their countenance change.  You eyes light up, voices change, and stories begin to explain who the person in the picture was – much more then the sum of the parts.

God spoke through a prophet named Isaiah about people taking up idols because they needed something visual to connect with God.  Throughout scripture we find God illusive to images, because He is more than a statue, wood cravings, and symbols.  Recently, I have wrestled with a question from God in Isaiah 46.5 which reads, “…Can you picture me without reducing me?” God is love and love is beyond images, words, icons.  Like the love I have for my wife, she is more than I can communicate.  Like a picture of a loved one, it’s not the picture, but what the picture represents. 

One of lives biggest problems is God doesn’t show up in person and reveal himself.  Even when He did, it was as human and required faith, not evidence.  Many people demand, “God, just show me your real and I’ll believe.”  Throughout the gospel Jesus testified that He has and we still didn’t believe – and won’t.  Why? Because God cared enough to not take away the wonder of whom He is with magic tricks and superhero stunts.  He continues to put that responsibility in our hands.  We are to reflect His image, live out his kingdom of love, and be evangelist of hope. 

Can you picture God without reducing Him?

18
Aug

Recognize

Everyone likes to be recognized. We like the feeling of being seen, heard, known – remembered.  It’s satisfying to be acknowledged as having merit.  We want to be the hero of the story.  Recognition is an expression of appreciation and we like to feel valuable.

We also like recognition because it makes us feel something of valid or entitled; truly who we think we are (or should be). The problem comes when we cherish recognition from people more than from God.  It also surfaces in the shadows when we accept credit that should be given God. 

Recently, I have entertained the shadows.  But God has a way of offering steadiness to our unbalance.  The story reads in Isaiah 37 of Hezekiah praying to God to rescue Israel in the face of Assyria.  Hezekiah is quick to acknowledge God as maker of heaven and earth, the only true God, and God of all kingdoms of the earth.  Rightfully so, but a little late!  It’s amusing how we recognize God as supreme when we need Him and identify ourselves honorable when we feel deserving.

In Hezekiah’s contempt (Is 37.21-25), God reprimands him for bragging (something we do when we feel entitled).  Hezekiah, pride to march to his own drum, claimed how he climbed high mountains, reached far lands, conquered peaks, explored depths, find water and drank his fill, and emptied rivers with one kick of his foot.  God responds by say “I’ve been behind this all along….this is a longstanding plan of mine and I’m just now making it happen…”(Is 37.26-27). I think John the Baptist put it best; I must decrease so He can increase. 

Summer and I sat in front of five men last week with confidence they would see “super church planters” – recognize us. We walked away with regret, not because they turned us down, but because we felt they didn’t admit our abilities, experience, and talents.  I realize later that I wanted them to recognize me as a church planter – because I already defined myself as much.  “My long resume of church planting should be enough, gentlemen!”  Haha. I didn’t claim to do all Hezekiah did but I shared the same misplaced recognition.

God is the source of my abilities, experience, and talents.  He is the only person I need remembering, but then again His been behind everything. He called me along time ago and it’s been a longstanding plan of His and He is just now making it happen.  I’m glad He is allowing me to play a role.

Confession is good for the soul.